Another day has gone by in this humid weather, I’m all for the Sun but not when it’s hiding behind the clouds. Need to feel the sunlight on my cheeks and get my dose of vitamin d..
Been quite slack on my site recently but that will change soon I can assure you.
I, of course and doing camming and realtime sessions but now I usually only do with a deposit to secure booking as have had a few let downs recently which is very annoying. I do get that many chicken out or realize cannot afford the sessions maybe just got carried away when booking but this doesn’t mean that it’s OK to do.
I get that things happen last minute so I always ask to be notified at the earliest opportunity so can take another booking or plan out my day/evening accordingly.
One other thing a Sub, Sissy, Slave or any other name they wanna be called, doesn’t seem to get is that dommes have busy schedules and if provisionally take a booking without a deposit this can be a risk and many times I have put off another job cause of the booking have provisionally (with no deposit) but then gets cancelled last minute or I could be sitting there waiting for fuck all, as no ones coming.
So imagine, turning a booking away, planned ahead and have everything ready for the time agreed and scheduled and then narda, nothing not even a “sorry mistress something has come up” followed by some ridiculous excuse. I think that is very wrong and disrespectful and the decent thing would, is to let me know.
I am human too (believe it or not) and also may have to reschedule a session where needed but I would always give enough notice and if the case would carry on deposit already paid to another time and date we both could do but this but very rarely happens, if at all.
However, if a sub does not give me notice then of course goes without saying you would loose deposit as you would with anything you purchase online or enter verbal agreement but cancelled without notice, very simple rules if you ask me. Notice means can carry over, no notice means it’s a cost incurred by you, get it.
Anyway hope you get my drift, had a little ramble about time-wasters in my previous blog and now about the ones that don’t get why ask for deposit and may think that this is a way to get money from you instantly before blocking.
If a sub does their homework on a domme then he/she should never be ripped off.
My inbox is full of subs and slaves I have liaised with that tell me there horror stories after been chatting to me, should I feel sympathy …NO.. If you had came to be in the first instance then all would be good, sorry I cannot sympathize with you no more as have done many times.
Only so much I can hear it.
Anyway with love and hate