New Year, New Twitter
Please note: new twitter handle @MistressXenaUK formally @Mistress_Xena80. If you wondered where I’d gone, now you know! Follow me bitches!
Long Time No Blog
Wow been a long time since last blogged so thought it’s about time I done another… I just get so busy at times and other times I like to relax so kinda forget about doing it but I know that’s bad and not an excuse and I am going to try and blog more (I’m sure I have said this in previous posts)…
Sessions & Other Info
As usual I have been doing my online and realtime sessions.. I am always having fun no matter what I do.
If you are interested in booking a session with me individually, as part of a double domination session or a cuckolding session with my BBC alpha hubby, then message me to discuss more.
Remember, nothing can offend and I have a very high tolerance of most things just NOT time wasters. I find over half of my emails can be from time wasters and fake subs who live in fantasy only – I do both but I don’t like my time to be wasted – remember that…
I deal with all different levels of experience from newbies/beginners to intermediate and more advanced levels.. So don’t be shy! I love taking a newbie on their journey into submission just as much as love a more experienced sub/slave who is ready to submit deeper and deeper and push their boundaries.
Enough said on the above matters now – think made up for some lost time anyway.
With love and hate…
your Mistress Xena
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Hey folks.. How is it going…
Been a little while since I have blogged so thought would do another..
Just been so busy recently.
I am off on my travels in 2 weeks, going to visit a sub in Turkey in which I am going to incorporate my holiday there with my BBC hubby too. The sub I will be seeing has been serving me a long time online and be great to finally meet the little weasel in person, can’t wait. He has been wanting to meet up for a long time but unfortunately has not come to London, in the time he has served me. I rarely travel to see subs, only if have served me for a long period of time or of course they are paying for an all expenses paid holiday for me (and my husband as we like to travel together where possible, it’s a great life) or a friend as I do not travel alone.
Sissy-Central has been coming along nicely and of course Expose-a-Sissy. I am loving all the posts where people have been exposing themselves for all to see, its exciting for me to see it being well used. Keep them coming.
We unfortunately, have been having some technical issues with some peoples accounts upon sign-up, please bear with us this will be fixed soon.
Still always looking for anyone who can write content or upload – always happy to extend our Sissy-Central family. If anyone feels they have got what it takes to write about life being a sissy, how it felt before or after transition, what it’s like to life you life a lie etc. Any story you got to tell would be amazing. Real life content is what we are after.
The dungeon works have yet to start – I am sure I told you before, the emptying of the property was a long process as previous tenant was a hoarder and the landlord is a very slow mover – it’s a family property so no major rush on their, part just mine. I like to get things done. But it looks like works will now start after I return from holiday. I have to be there Project Managing it all, as I like to oversea things in general and of course micro manage, well manage everything really.
Still always looking for good labourers or materials that can be donated or used as part tribute for sessions booked in with me – always happy to negotiate.
A slave of mine brought an e-stim machine off Mistress Alana for me (see my twitter) who came to mine to drop item off. It was wonderful to meet her also. I love the machine can’t wait to use on the slave who purchased it for me.
I have been quite booked up recently and now rarely ever take a booking without a deposit for those that don’t know. Have had a few let downs in the past and this can muck up my whole schedule not to mention make me turn away work for a session that won’t happen – so please always know this and don’t take offence – I do not take a booking without one.
Really hope to hear from you all at some point, with some feedback whether good or not it is all constructive.
With Love & Hate..
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Another day has gone by in this humid weather, I’m all for the Sun but not when it’s hiding behind the clouds. Need to feel the sunlight on my cheeks and get my dose of vitamin d..
Been quite slack on my site recently but that will change soon I can assure you.
I, of course and doing camming and realtime sessions but now I usually only do with a deposit to secure booking as have had a few let downs recently which is very annoying. I do get that many chicken out or realize cannot afford the sessions maybe just got carried away when booking but this doesn’t mean that it’s OK to do.
I get that things happen last minute so I always ask to be notified at the earliest opportunity so can take another booking or plan out my day/evening accordingly.
One other thing a Sub, Sissy, Slave or any other name they wanna be called, doesn’t seem to get is that dommes have busy schedules and if provisionally take a booking without a deposit this can be a risk and many times I have put off another job cause of the booking have provisionally (with no deposit) but then gets cancelled last minute or I could be sitting there waiting for fuck all, as no ones coming.
So imagine, turning a booking away, planned ahead and have everything ready for the time agreed and scheduled and then narda, nothing not even a “sorry mistress something has come up” followed by some ridiculous excuse. I think that is very wrong and disrespectful and the decent thing would, is to let me know.
I am human too (believe it or not) and also may have to reschedule a session where needed but I would always give enough notice and if the case would carry on deposit already paid to another time and date we both could do but this but very rarely happens, if at all.
However, if a sub does not give me notice then of course goes without saying you would loose deposit as you would with anything you purchase online or enter verbal agreement but cancelled without notice, very simple rules if you ask me. Notice means can carry over, no notice means it’s a cost incurred by you, get it.
Anyway hope you get my drift, had a little ramble about time-wasters in my previous blog and now about the ones that don’t get why ask for deposit and may think that this is a way to get money from you instantly before blocking.
If a sub does their homework on a domme then he/she should never be ripped off.
My inbox is full of subs and slaves I have liaised with that tell me there horror stories after been chatting to me, should I feel sympathy …NO.. If you had came to be in the first instance then all would be good, sorry I cannot sympathize with you no more as have done many times.
Only so much I can hear it.
Anyway with love and hate
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