I have recently recruited a ghost writer to help me endeavour on a life long ambition of mine which is to write a book. Before I became a domme this was something I had wanted to do in regards to my life and the things have seen and done to date.
Now that I am a well recognised (some would say quite well recognised and internationally known may be another comment they may say)….. oh boy ….have I seen a whole lot more. I have more than enough naughty, maybe too naughty at times heehee but defiantly saucy and some very interesting, some may shocking stories to tell.
I feel as though we are halfway there – hoping the book will have enough content and drama to grip anyone of my fans or just someone with a keen interest in my story and memoirs of how I came to be the way I am today.
Some may say to me “wow, that was so good” (I’m hoping of course) ….others may say “why did you bother and what’s so important about you the world wants to know”. I am not saying I am in fact important (but of course I am).. I am not saying I will have a best seller… I am not saying that my story is better or worse than anyone else’s… all I am saying is that I want my loyal subs and fans to learn a bit about me.
I also want to get my story out there so I have done something positive with every little ounce of pain and hurt I have been caused by enemies (wouldn’t call them that now as look at life differently but haters maybe lol)….. or even friends and loved ones. Maybe even family at times. However, I wouldn’t change one thing, well maybe couple minor things. But most actions in my life and dramas I have been involved with, most decisions I have made and reasons behind my actions have made me who I am and I am proud of it.
I am stronger than I have ever been before.
Enough of the waffling.. my book has really empowered me (prob thought nothing could empower me more but hey this did)… it has made me bring up history that made me, once again cry in sadness and cry, with happiness. Most of the things you will read in my book is and will be factual but (I will say…. well what comes up on most reality programmes credits – “some situations and conversations have been dramatised for viewers effect” – most will be facts but a few twists of fiction may be thrown in).
I will be amending names and some other info that could be exposing anyone of any kind. I don’t want any law suits on my hands now do I?…
Anyway – to show some love and much needed support I would appreciate your feedback on whether you would want to read my memoirs and also once published then would love for you to reach deep into your pocket and buy a copy – supporting the cause to the fullest.
Anyway, with love and hate… your Mistress Xena Xxx
It’s been a while since I posted I know – but makes it worth the wait all that anticipation ah.
Let’s give you some updates:
Progress of works seems to be happening even if a little slower than would have liked. The ventilation is halfway done and the electrics have just been started also. The toilet and sink will be fitted next weekend. Have finally got a Dehumidifyer in basement to get rid of any damp that may be there. The project is such a exciting one. If you have been reading up and keeping updated with the dungeon/studios progress then you would know that it is a property that been in my family for a long time and needed a major refurbish plus we opened up a floor that had never been opened up for, before now. I can’t wait to see final result as I am sure many of you can’t too.
Https://expose-a-sissy.com has been getting more and more hits. We now have over 1200 members online and it is growing by the day. This site is a site where you can upload any info and pics YOU want to upload bearing in mind if you do not want real info or pics then that’s fine also, you are in control of content. Please note any pics you may want removed please follow protocol – there is a small admin fee to do this – many want free exposure well there we are you can do it yourself. I simply do not have the time and energy to do this without a tribute hence why site was created. A sort of DIY exposure site.
We are always looking for writers and anyone whose can share their real life sissy stories whether be fun and exciting or maybe scary and worrying (there are so many different stories to tell I’m sure). Always looking for hard workers to join our team and develop within a role that may be suited to them. Please email for more info or contact via our twitter @exposesissy
I love my realtime sessions which are carried out in SW London for the time being. Once the dungeon/studio has been completed many of my sessions will be held here. I am currently offering double domme sessions online and in realtime with the wonder Goddess Mia please see her twitter @Goddess__Mia please message either myself or Goddess Mia in regards to booking our time. You won’t be disappointed. Goddess Mia lives quite close to me and we regularly meet up to abuse our subs and do some content when requested – more to come real soon.
ATM / Cashpoint meets:
Whoever is a femdom and say they are not a findom is lying – every femdom will do findom and or cashpoint meets – please note as cashpoint meet is NOT findom but many get confused. Findom is a act of sending a tribute for nothing in return – not a pic, not contact, no time, nothing…. zip… nada so don’t confuse the two. I am also offering cashpoint meets with the wonder Goddess__Mia in SW london (please note: if want us to travel then a tribute needs to be paid before hand to cover time and costs)
These sessions are always fun as does not matter where in the world you are located – I can also offer 2, 3, 4 etc dommes on a group call as I am in a group of wonderful ladies where many are on hand to use and abuse and or just have fun at a Sub’s expense.
Femocracyglobal – FSSG meetings:
Please note the meetings for London will be held in the new year at the new dungeon – stay tuned and also checking https://femocracyglobal.com to see where other meetings are being held around the world and close to you.
Please note I do allow subs, slaves, sissies, losers, betas, pay pigs etc to serve me doing my housework and also labour in my dungeon to be. Please DO NOT apply if you are not a hard worker. I always like to say make a nice tribute to do this however it is not usually same cost as a full BDSM session would be. I will ONLY allow servitude without a tribute for when I have a lot of work on and require to be done in certain timescale. I have had many subs tell me they are a good hard worker and when they have left after checking up on works done noticed that actually made works worse and more work required to sort.
I am always happy to get some feedback so feel free to message me here or on my personal email which is firstname.lastname@example.org or DM me on twitter @Mistress_Xena80 also if being a cuck has ever appealed to you then check out @sexycouple69xxxon twitter as I do bookings with my BBC hubby when requested. Please note he is an alpha but he is NOT my alpha lol women are always in control or at least that’s how it should be.
Anyway that’s all for now – will TRY not leave as long next time.
Hey there folks, well what can I say – yes it has been some time since have posted and seems even longer looking at my site and judging by the last few blogs I done – well most of the blogs done in 2019, have been lost and cannot be restored – well in the process of still trying to do so. So bear with me. Will try post at least 1 blog each week now – get it going again – updating you on what I have been doing.
For those of you that know about my dungeon works and studio/sissy studio to be, the works have just started – only a year or so later than planned grrrrrrrrr bloody projects – under estimated this one but we will get there – just had a few knocks backs which have now all been sorted. I have had a few subs come to work there for me doing general cleaning and some labouring, moving rubbish etc. I am always looking for more helpers to help where can – you will always be rewarded. Of course any sub who happens to have a trade and can offer their skilled labour then I will of course give you some dungeon time once it has been finished.
Looking forward to the end of Sept where my hubby and I will be visiting one of our subs – who likes to serve an alpha couple of course. We were actually going to visit him last year but didn’t get round to it – so this year he has booked it, can’t wait. Nothing like being paid to go visit a sub, somewhere hot and to do what we like to do best. Anyway, I understand couple domination isn’t for everyone. Cucks love it of course but not all subs or slaves can handle being around a more dominant and superior male to them – I get that also.
I am very excited for 2020 as so many things coming up and happening – stay tuned here or DM me for more info.
Had a new recruit this week for my FemocracyGlobal – see https://femocracyglobal.com fans remember I also help run @FemocracyUK on twitter and used to hold the London meetings in Camden. I will be starting these back in my own premises – the dungeon once it has been fully renovated. If you would like to know more check out the site of message me here or on twitter. He so far has purchased 2 lots of my foot skin shavings, hard skin and toe nails. I love it when a sub uses my body waste and makes the most of it – enjoying every last bit of it… Make’s me so happy and warm inside to know that’s some of you cherish whatever my body gets rid of – that is the actions of a true female supremacy believer. More should follow suit. My armpit hair is next on the agenda.
I have had the usual mass of sissy sessions but also a few real-time hypnosis sessions which I always love to do. Remember I am clinically trained in hypnosis and love to take control of one’s mind resulting in me having total power and control.
The updates on https://expose-a-sissy.com well it has been causing us some issues but these are being fixed. It is a basic word press site and finding a lot of the add-ons for new features we are trying because a knock on effect in other areas so has not been that user friendly up until now – this is something that will be fixed. We have our mother site launching soon – which was unofficially launched a couple of years or so back – for those that may remember, but took offline to concentrate one Expose-a-Sissy – so stay tuned for Sissy-Central also.
My wrestling training – which is every 2 weeks has been so much fun – learning many more moves to do on my victims. The girls at https://mwmuk.net are so fantastic let along stunning and strong – makes me want to get on top of my exercise regime and start eating healthier even more so, so can have more energy when comes to these sessions as they can be hard work.
Anyway that’s me over and out – feel free to message me here or any other way you can for feedback and or requests, comments or anything else you want to ask – just no bullshit OR timewasters (I can tell who you are) please had enough of that to last me a lifetime.
Well it has been some time since have updated this blog. I feel quite bad that have neglected my page. I had some server issues which have now been sorted and hopefully will not arise again. I have had a lot going on the last few months, what with the dungeon/studio being delayed and other things in the pipeline happening – but I am happy to say that things are now settling down. I am due to go away on a short holiday early June (for 1 week only). When I return I will have the keys for my new studio and works will begin. As always I will be keeping you updated and will post photos regular especially to anyone who had tribute towards the works and or offered to help in the form of labour, services or materials. I am hoping that many of you will be excited to work for me in this way and of course I will be ordering you and abusing you as we go along, how could I not. Today I had a fab meet with a new finsub who I went for a drink with. He gave me a lovely little note in an envelope saying how I deserve it more than him, as I am a goddess – pure and simple. Apparent finsub’s take note. This sub didn’t expect anything in return. However, he got some of my time and of course the humiliation of counting out money in my hand on the street. Then after walking him back to the station I gave him a couple of kicks in his balls, as he asked so politely, how could I resist. I have had a good few sessions recently – you subs have been pleasing me. A few have come up to do my chores and housework which is always a good way to please me, usually a tribute is always expected and welcomed with open arms. For those who have been signing up to my other site www.expose-a-sissy.com / www.sissy-central.com we have recently changed our server provider so have had to iron out some issues there as well. Please, please (very rare you will see me saying please) could you just bear with us or maybe even message me with any issues or concerns that you may have as always happy to help where my sites are concerned.
My new studio/dungeon will be soooooooo exciting as I am planning many different events to be held there. Mistress training will also be available and will be holding workshops held by other top mistresses whom I have spoken to already and happy to do so. My main focus will be my sissy studio which will be available for shoots and sessions. I will have a selection of clothes, shoes and wigs there to be used. I really enjoy making over a sissy and teaching them how to become as feminine as possible. I also have a professional team on hand which will consist of a female photographer who specialises in fashion, glamour and published shoots. We will also have a female MUA (make-up artist) who will available for all different levels of make overs/photo-shoots. We are in the process or getting this together so if you are interested in this happening before the studio opens, we do have another location we can use for now.
Of course I have been keeping up with my wrestling training for any of you that follow me there. I love to meet my girls down our gym for training doing some hands on moves, throwing each other around and learning new techniques from our fab instructor who is also a fellow mixed wrestler. If you are interested in having a session with myself or one of the other sexy ladies from Model Wrestling Management (MWM) then please do not hesitate to contact me so I can point you in the right direction. I love nothing more than to throw a weak male. Many of the clients who come to wrestle with me will deny they are a sub. In my time I have found that most have sub tendencies, even if it is just aroused when wrestling. Most if not all males are subs in one way or another – weak in one way or another – submit in one way or another. Anyway, just thought would do this to show you I am still here but just been so busy Please contact me direct for any booking enquiries whether be online or for real-time sessions. I love to do both. I love nothing more than to abuse and use weak males but I of course do it with style. I will never go full mean mistress mode unless specifically required or you are feeling my wrath – which I do not recommend. Oh one last thing, I am now currently in the process of redecorating my bathroom – front room and hallway have just been done – freshly plastered, painted, new USB sockets etc . now I need my bathroom done. So, any volunteers offering to help? Slaves/subs that want to so some DIY maybe in exchange for a session let me know – it is something that may be considered especially if you have a trade. I need a woodchip wallpaper stripper, easy enough to do I know – why should I do it and get my hands and nails dirty when I have all you subs to hand. Mistresses should not have to do the DIY or heavy tasks if they do not desire. I do not desire
Take care until I post again. With Love and Hate – Xena.xxx
Well…… subs, slaves, sissies and any inferior male that may be reading this (you are in-fact inferior if you are male, pure and simple) and any fellow wonderful dommes alike that may be reading this blog too……..
It is that time of the year again when I get brought loads of eggs (and no not Fabergé ones unfortunately), yes they say women love chocolate, but not as much as diamonds, never of course… Whereas I do not mind a box of chocolates now and then never would I accept food, drink or anything as such as payment…. Yes, I will accept as a gift as all reasonable gifts usually are accepted but I will never do a sessions albeit be online or real-time for my appetite….. I have heard of dommes giving sessions for meals out and shopping trips. But, for me that is all very nice and well but I do love hard earned CASH….show me the money as they say….
Cash pays my bills, cash enables me to buy the things I want, cash is a girls real best friend, sod diamonds… I only loose them (alpha will be the one to tell you that hence why he has stopped buying me them after 2 pairs of expensive earrings got lost in my hoarding, years ago and do admit I have got better with time,but still no more diamonds from alpha).
They say cash can’t bring you happiness, helllllll no not if not got anything else in life maybe not, but it can def make life a lot easier having the items you not only require but desire, want, need and of course, dream of.
Life doesn’t come cheap, in fact far from it – so most have to work hard maybe in a, let’s say white collar job, to get what you desire or at least try to get it. I do also, just in a very different way to how most ‘vanilla’ people earn their livingand LOVE it (or is that in fact true as there are MANY dommes in this world now that do findom/femdom online and in real-time and earn so well, so it is a more popular vocation than you may think).
Anyway…. anyone wanting to session take note – cash IS the way to a woman’s heart that’s a fact, well it is mine………
Wishing all you wonderful and sexy dommes out there a fantastic bank holiday weekend…. hope you get spoiled and no not with eggs unless real expensive ones…. or of course diamonds and other gifts that are acceptable by your own standards…. you deserve it..
To the subs, slaves, sissies, betas, losers, pindicks, paypigs.. gosh I could go on forever… but, all of the above and alike – enjoy your weekend,but not too much you need to save those pennies (meaning bank notes red ones are my favourite ones) to spoil us unobtainable, worthy, naturally talented, money hungry, experienced, wonderful, dominant women (we deserve it more than your wife/gf lol because we just do)…..Worship us, the superior sex, us females who you look up to from the bottom of the floor, with your sad puppy dogs eyes, so fearful but willing to please at whatever cost, beneath us which is where you all belong and should stay there submitting and serving women forever, at your peril….
After a 4way webcam session…….a trio of dommes and a sub (domme ménage à trois I like to call it, see photo below this post)….. I had this session today with a regular sub of mine, and some beautiful ladies who I am fortunate enough to call my friends and who are also experienced pro-dommes…. I was inspired by our skype session for this post… read on…….
Female Power…. has never, ever been more stronger……. Female Supremacy… Women that work together are more happier and I would say better off in more ways than just in their pocket.
I agree that females should do whatever they desire to earn money, whether that be graft in a hot office all day long with sweaty people around them, whether it be wait on them hand and foot as a waitress, or clean some old asses as a carer. Or maybe they like to have fun, be wined and dined and get lucky at the end of the night, whatever it may be I would NEVER judge. The only time I would judge would be if peoples lives were at risk, it was illegal (well give or take a few things) or morally just wrong. I agree that females have much more power than males, its about time that more start to embrace this and not ignore it.
A female can go to a bar flutter their eyelashes and be approached to buy a drink. I have seen some males that have the longest lashes (how unfair) and yet no matter how hard they may try flutter them no woman would offer to buy them a drink. Well I say no woman but I am sure there would be, out there somewhere that would. However, there wouldn’t be an amount of females queuing up like there would be if it was the other way round.
I believe females should use their gender and NOT bodies as such to get what they want, need, desire and dream of in life. But that doesn’t mean they can’t send a cheeky picture for some papers (cash) of course but it means no offering your body up to a male for sexual services or naked pics. But I also say if you like to go out and about, get laid often and enjoy sleeping with randoms then maybe it is more suited to you, but not for me or many others.
My monthly meetings in Camden for www.femocracyglobal.com are all about meeting and empowering women, helping them evolve in a new role in life where they ARE in control of every aspect.
I often meet women who say they couldn’t do what I do, they don’t have the confidence etc… but I just reply in saying that no matter how little confidence you have it WILL grow doing this job, with experience and time empowering you more than you have ever dreamed of. It’s such a good way to feel needed, wanted, adored even and to make you realise your true potential, something which not many vanilla people may get in their lifetime. Once I explain and enlighten them, some of whom actually now domme now full time, they thank me as have grown in confidence and of course bank balance, what more could you ask for? Those that do, do sexual things for money may not get the same feeling and gratification as a dominatrix who had fun at their subs expense, got their house cleaned, told how great they are also got to take their anger out on and made the rules up suited to them oh and did I mention getting paid nicely ££££££.
The subs/slaves/ betas etc that attend my meetings, have the excitement of being in the presence of a few novice, inexperienced, semi-pro and pro domme’s company which wouldn’t usually happen. To serve us drink, to answer questions when asked and to ask us questions if and when allowed, whatever the ladies want the ladies get. This is good a way to mingle and meet with like minded people whatever level you are at.
Growing up in London and in this world I have seen too many women hate on other women, I could never hate another woman, but only praise them for being just themselves. Don’t get me wrong, it doesn’t mean that I am at peace, love and harmony with every domme or female out there, don’t be disillusioned. I have a wrath too and any woman who disrespects me in more than one way will feel it. I do believe in female supremacy and try my hardest to work with all women but some just really cannot be worked with, therefore I leave them too it, but dare try mess with a domme and you do feel their wrath that’s a known fact, I have minions that do my work, never get my hands dirty.
Anyway, this was meant to be just a quick post to comment on how females work better together as a team and have way more fun.
Lots of love and hate (depending on who is reading this)