Happy New Year to you all…
Hope your 2019 started off with a bang.. mine did as I had a little last minute gathering with fireworks and drinks, with family and friends, even a butler to hand – will speak more about that in this post.
Sorry I have not posted in some time I have just been super busy, with Christmas etc. I am so glad it is now finally out the way and a new year has begun. Not that 2018 wasn’t good to me and mine, oh that it was. I think 2018 was one of the best years I have ad yet in business and my personal life. So no complaints here.
I hope you all or at least the majority of you, had a good festive season and end of year celebrations. I may be a domme and have a cruel and wicked streak in me however, I also do care about each and every one of my fans and especially my owned subs and slaves. I wouldn’t be a good mistress (in my eyes) if I didn’t care. Although some would beg to differ.
So many things have been happening. I really do hope most of you have been keeping up to date via my twitter as usually update that a few times a week at least. I also have a fans site here: https://www.onlyfans.com/mistress_xena80 sign up to it for more exclusive photos on sessions, that I do and of course myself and personal life only $15pcm surely most of you can afford that. By all means, feel free to message me there to let me know what other kind of photos you would like to see more of.
So here is an overview of everything that has been happening –
I have been quite busy over the festive season with many of you coming to visit me for servitude and to get humiliated and degraded by me. Some wanted pain others not so. Others wanted mothering which I always love to do – see my twitter for most recent ABDL session and meet. It was very funny.
Has a few foot worship sessions as well as pain – you know me I love to inflict pain.
Ummm, what else… been up to loads but feels like a while ago now…. Well most were – last year haha.
One of my good friends who I introduced into BDSM and domination on and offline took ownership of a slave recently who has proven himself by serving her well. She came to mine for New Year drinks and we had her butler serve us and my guests throughout the night, which was in a ‘vanilla’ setting. The slave found it quite hard but done well nether the less and we had fun using him subtly so others didn’t notice. I wish I could have had more fun with him and my friend but unfortunately I had guests to attend too and needed to be a hostess something I do quite well.
Here is a pic of the butler serving us well, my drink anyway hence the single glass.
Sissy-Central & Expose-A-Sissy:
For those that have already signed up you may be aware, that the sites have been going on and offline over the last few weeks this is due to site maintenance. Please bear with us. We are continuing to add and improve the site on a weekly basis until it has finally got all the features we require but this is an on-going process. Please contact me if you are having any log in issues on firstname.lastname@example.org I will endeavour to help and sort out where can. But we are a 2 and a half man band at present – due to be expanding later in 2019 so we are limited resources. I am glad to see many of you been using and posting on mainly Expose-a-Sissy – keep up the good work girls and guys. We have a market place coming soon also, so will be looking for vendors so far we have recruited an Adult Baby Sissy Nappy company. So we will have more ABDL/Sissy BITS to order soon.
We are always looking for helpers, volunteers, investors and workers to join our team so happy to receive any enquiries regarding such.
Please continue to use the site if not having log in issues. If you haven’t yet already please accept my friend request or add me.
Our membership options will be available soon so I am hoping many of you will at least sign up to the basic membership plan which I think is £2.95pcm.
Any donations towards the site maintenance and new features we will be adding soon will be greatly appreciated and well received.
We also have a few more sites to come which are listed on the Sissy-Central homepage which include. Sisspedia, Sissy-Central Market, Hypno-Siss and a couple more (to be released soon).
Remember to add us on twitter – @sissycentral and @exposesissy
As you all know I have acquired a property that I will be renovating real soon. The basement will be a dungeon – private exclusive hire only and the studio – which will be more available to rent for many different events and occasions. I will be doing the www.femocracyglobal.com Female Supremacy events there for London – some of you may have attended the previous events I had back in 2018 in Camden.
The studio itself which will be on entry level will consist of an open space for hire – with basic photography/video equipment. This will be available to hire to photographers in and out the fetish world. The back bit of the studio will have a dressing area with mirror and wardrobe with items in to try out and use – this will ideally be my sissy corner. There will also be a toilet and shower behind this area. This will be the perfect place to do all my and other Sissy make overs and shoots plus can’t wait to have some sissy/ femdom events such as sissy fashion shows and PJ parties. Many other femdom ideas in the pipe line just stay tuned. Also always open to suggestions and ideas especially where business is concerned.
The property has taken much longer than anticipated to clear out and make it so we can do the works easily. This is a long process as the landlord is a hoarder and has taken his time but assured me it will be very soon, latest I would say, maybe in mid-Feb. The works we need to do is quite substantial, but I have a good team around me on hand. Any other labourer or skilled tradesmen (tradeslave heehee) want to do offer their time and skills possibly in exchange for a session then we can discuss.
I will be posting updates of the works when it starts here to show the progress and all that is happening with this.
Any questions in regards to this or any of the above please feel free to message me. I don’t bite well not in the first instance or communication.
With love & hate
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Hey folks.. How is it going…
Been a little while since I have blogged so thought would do another..
Just been so busy recently.
I am off on my travels in 2 weeks, going to visit a sub in Turkey in which I am going to incorporate my holiday there with my BBC hubby too. The sub I will be seeing has been serving me a long time online and be great to finally meet the little weasel in person, can’t wait. He has been wanting to meet up for a long time but unfortunately has not come to London, in the time he has served me. I rarely travel to see subs, only if have served me for a long period of time or of course they are paying for an all expenses paid holiday for me (and my husband as we like to travel together where possible, it’s a great life) or a friend as I do not travel alone.
Sissy-Central has been coming along nicely and of course Expose-a-Sissy. I am loving all the posts where people have been exposing themselves for all to see, its exciting for me to see it being well used. Keep them coming.
We unfortunately, have been having some technical issues with some peoples accounts upon sign-up, please bear with us this will be fixed soon.
Still always looking for anyone who can write content or upload – always happy to extend our Sissy-Central family. If anyone feels they have got what it takes to write about life being a sissy, how it felt before or after transition, what it’s like to life you life a lie etc. Any story you got to tell would be amazing. Real life content is what we are after.
The dungeon works have yet to start – I am sure I told you before, the emptying of the property was a long process as previous tenant was a hoarder and the landlord is a very slow mover – it’s a family property so no major rush on their, part just mine. I like to get things done. But it looks like works will now start after I return from holiday. I have to be there Project Managing it all, as I like to oversea things in general and of course micro manage, well manage everything really.
Still always looking for good labourers or materials that can be donated or used as part tribute for sessions booked in with me – always happy to negotiate.
A slave of mine brought an e-stim machine off Mistress Alana for me (see my twitter) who came to mine to drop item off. It was wonderful to meet her also. I love the machine can’t wait to use on the slave who purchased it for me.
I have been quite booked up recently and now rarely ever take a booking without a deposit for those that don’t know. Have had a few let downs in the past and this can muck up my whole schedule not to mention make me turn away work for a session that won’t happen – so please always know this and don’t take offence – I do not take a booking without one.
Really hope to hear from you all at some point, with some feedback whether good or not it is all constructive.
With Love & Hate..
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Hey all you fabulous (and not so fabulous) people..
Haven’t blogged in a little while so thought I would finally do another. I have been so busy with some work commitments as well as attending a wake and a celebration of life that I helped organise – it took a lot out of me and away from my work. But I am back and back with a vengeance I am.
I am getting fed up of people trying to contact me, who I have already disguarded previously. If I have blocked you I have blocked you for a reason. You have either annoyed me, with you constant going on, picture sending and unplanned Skype calls, maybe you have just continued to waste my time with broken promises and fake proof of payment when I clearly know what has been paid and what hasn’t …….or it may be that once upon a time you worked for or with me but we had crossed words and decided to part – if it is the latter please note once I leave things in the past it is leave there a bit like an ex-boyfriend.
Please don’t take it personal but people that have once brought me negative energy (no matter what you may have or may have not done for me in the past) then I don’t want to know. Forwards not backwards they are the movements I like to take. I have a few social slaves who deal with my male in the first instance and I get reported back as to what messages I get, doesn’t mean I will respond though, which is my prerogative – simple.
Anyway, on the website front. Sissy-Central seems to be going from strength to strength as does Expose-a-Sissy. We are slowly getting more sign ups. Please note at present we only have the basic membership (which you have to have to communicate with others on site) active but paid memberships are coming soon.
There is a competition see photo below and previous blog: https://www.goddessxena.co.uk/sc-announcements/sissy-central-competition/
Please submit entries to: http://social.sissy-central.com/submit
I have had a few entries already but need more so get writing girls.
Recently we have been having some chats with a possibly new collaborator/TS mistress to come on board. I wont mention any names as yet not until they have a profile on Sissy-Central. But I can assure you that this wonderful new contact will be writing some great pieces maybe weekly, for us in regards to what is is like becoming a TS girl in real life with everyone knowing etc. For many of you I think she will become you new idol. The TS mistress will also be bringing out a book soon on I suppose all the up’s and down’s(but from what I hear it has most certainly been more up’s since the transition).
I also have a male dom who is happy to come on board and likes to take control of TS girls. Please email for more info as nothing is set in stone yet but we can always arrange things if necessary.
I have finally started to get back into the swing of things and you will see me more active here and on the other sites we have. Had a wonderful sub come over yesterday who sorted my kitchen out, as needed it had so much washing up. I also have a cuck coming over at 5pm, so very soon to serve me and my husband – which is always a lot of fun.
The dungeon is also being slowly done (still in the emptying stages – any donators will get full progress updates).
Please don’t forget to enter the competition as lots of goodies to win including a free session with me.
Hope to see you more active on sites.
Much Love & hate to some
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Another fun day in the Xena household…
I had a few cam sessions, couple phone and texting sessions and one fun realtime session with a Sissy sub who was not great at taking pain. However, what they lacked in pain threshold they made up for it in other ways, such as obedience, good selection of clothes, servitude etc…
Usually, when I have a first session with a new sub it’s good to get a feel for one another and know what the other wants from the session. I am fed up of hearing subs say “whatever mistress wants, mistress can do” as usually this is not the case… usually there will be something that the sub does not want to do and either will say no to a mistress during session which shouldn’t really happen or them leaving the session unhappy and unsatisfied (well that is how some of my subs want it to go but we also have to establish that at the beginning of our first session).. I also like to explore if a sub is not sure, then this is where the traffic light codes work for me, as a safe word… the usual, green means go/good, amber means hmmmm not bad but close to limit and red means no it hurts/I don’t like it please stop.. when a sub says red (which the Sissy I met tonight said a few times) I then stop and lessen the power just a little and tease Haha but of course I do respect all my subs to a certain extent as I expect them to and KNOW they respect me…
I really do not like doing sessions without safe words as have had a few bad experiences so usually wouldn’t do a session where a sub doesn’t want a safe word in place.
Anyway, this Sissy slut had a fab red, string vest type dress and some very high heels.. not to mention a wig and stockings as you can see in the pictures below..
Objectification was also on the agenda with the Sissy, acting as a rather sturdy table and footstool…
Looking for some more sissies to train up.. when I have my dungeon, I will be renovating and moving into soon, I will have a whole wardrobe of wigs & clothes in a mixture of sizes as well as some size 9+ shoes, for all my sluts to dress up in.. will also have a mirror with a vanity table with make up and hold sissy events where we can all have some girly fun mistresses and sissies alike..
Right that’s me, signing off… like I said will try write more posts even if they are short… some will be sweet, others not so..
Oh, by the way.. have dyed my hair some amazing colours… right Technicolor mish mash I got going on now.. my subs will see of course and those that Cam with me…
Sleep well bitches. I will, as always.
With love and hate
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Hey there people…
All I can say is WOW this heat is pretty nuts, I am based in London and we are not used to such long periods of heat, without rain. It drizzled a little yesterday but the smallest amount. It needed it anyway.
I had a realtime session yesterday evening, with a local sub but he was sweating up in the collar and hogties. We actually ended the session earlier as he clearly couldn’t handle it, the heat got to him a bit also We had a bit of servitude and a little BDSM/Pain but he couldnt really take the heat plus he didnt want any marks whatsoever as had a suspcious wife that may inspect him when home, so left it like that and just had some short fun, but the little fucker got out of doing my dishes as that was next on the agenda for him to do.
Earlier today, I had a very rewarding ATM/Cashpoint meet – this is what I call findom (not money for femdom as that is totally different as a service is provided over some time)… This paypig was as good as they get simply wanting a quick meet, maximum withdrawal and then he walked away with a smile on his face – no doubt with a tingling in his pants also. He didnt want a slap, spit in face or any type of recording or pictures taken (ok maybe he wasnt the perfect paypig as the ones that don’t mind – are, as like to have as much as I can caught on cam, but understand a subs/pigs need for privacy as they must do mine).
I am getting really excited about my next project, which is my dungeon in South East London (if want to know specific location please contact me direct as on a need-to-know basis only at present). The dungeon will be located in the basement part of the building which gives it that authentic dungeon feel, with exposed brick work, cages and many other bits of equipment that will be available to use.
Upstairs, will be a clinical looking area for hire.. The place can be used for events, studio/photgraphy, make overs and of course webcamming, as will have a computer station with webcam and internet access set up. This is where I will be holding the up coming London #FSSG meeting’s on behalf of: www.femocracyglobal.com
I will also be holding other events there too (see my twitter for recent poll about what type of events the majority would like to see happen more often there).
The dungeon itself will be available to ALL the ladies in the FSSG movement at a very reduced rate but other than that it will be a private booking system, allowing only those I personally know to use it. I will of course be holding all my future sessions there apart for those special few who I will let come worship me in my home and serve me amongst my personal not professional surrroundings. It is not and will not be open for any public or randoms too book.
I am hoping the dungeon will be open after the summer here in London – as we will need a good 2 months or so to renovate it. I will be getting the keys handed to me anyway day now, exciting times.
Once again I am asking any subs who generally are hard working (labour) and/or have a trade that can be used in my new project then do get in touch as we can arrange something in return for one another’s services.
This was just a quick note, as said I was going to try do more of them in future.
Don’t be shy folks, come and say hi… show your support or just have a browse at my site – I hope you enjoy it.
Any feedback is greatly appreciated.
With Love & Hate lol….
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