I have recently recruited a ghost writer to help me endeavour on a life long ambition of mine which is to write a book. Before I became a domme this was something I had wanted to do in regards to my life and the things have seen and done to date.
Now that I am a well recognised (some would say quite well recognised and internationally known may be another comment they may say)….. oh boy ….have I seen a whole lot more. I have more than enough naughty, maybe too naughty at times heehee but defiantly saucy and some very interesting, some may shocking stories to tell.
I feel as though we are halfway there – hoping the book will have enough content and drama to grip anyone of my fans or just someone with a keen interest in my story and memoirs of how I came to be the way I am today.
Some may say to me “wow, that was so good” (I’m hoping of course) ….others may say “why did you bother and what’s so important about you the world wants to know”. I am not saying I am in fact important (but of course I am).. I am not saying I will have a best seller… I am not saying that my story is better or worse than anyone else’s… all I am saying is that I want my loyal subs and fans to learn a bit about me.
I also want to get my story out there so I have done something positive with every little ounce of pain and hurt I have been caused by enemies (wouldn’t call them that now as look at life differently but haters maybe lol)….. or even friends and loved ones. Maybe even family at times. However, I wouldn’t change one thing, well maybe couple minor things. But most actions in my life and dramas I have been involved with, most decisions I have made and reasons behind my actions have made me who I am and I am proud of it.
I am stronger than I have ever been before.
Enough of the waffling.. my book has really empowered me (prob thought nothing could empower me more but hey this did)… it has made me bring up history that made me, once again cry in sadness and cry, with happiness. Most of the things you will read in my book is and will be factual but (I will say…. well what comes up on most reality programmes credits – “some situations and conversations have been dramatised for viewers effect” – most will be facts but a few twists of fiction may be thrown in).
I will be amending names and some other info that could be exposing anyone of any kind. I don’t want any law suits on my hands now do I?…
Anyway – to show some love and much needed support I would appreciate your feedback on whether you would want to read my memoirs and also once published then would love for you to reach deep into your pocket and buy a copy – supporting the cause to the fullest.
Anyway, with love and hate… your Mistress Xena Xxx
Please note: new twitter handle @MistressXenaUK formally @Mistress_Xena80. If you wondered where I’d gone, now you know! Follow me bitches!
Long Time No Blog
Wow been a long time since last blogged so thought it’s about time I done another… I just get so busy at times and other times I like to relax so kinda forget about doing it but I know that’s bad and not an excuse and I am going to try and blog more (I’m sure I have said this in previous posts)…
Sessions & Other Info
As usual I have been doing my online and realtime sessions.. I am always having fun no matter what I do.
If you are interested in booking a session with me individually, as part of a double domination session or a cuckolding session with my BBC alpha hubby, then message me to discuss more.
Remember, nothing can offend and I have a very high tolerance of most things just NOT time wasters. I find over half of my emails can be from time wasters and fake subs who live in fantasy only – I do both but I don’t like my time to be wasted – remember that…
I deal with all different levels of experience from newbies/beginners to intermediate and more advanced levels.. So don’t be shy! I love taking a newbie on their journey into submission just as much as love a more experienced sub/slave who is ready to submit deeper and deeper and push their boundaries.
Enough said on the above matters now – think made up for some lost time anyway.
Such a lot has been happening over the last few months: The framework for the dungeon walls are nearly done, the ventilation system is now in and we have the first phase of electrics done. We actually was help up a little as we needed to do some structural works on the ceiling joist which wasn’t an easy job.
There was an acrow already supporting the ceiling before we can we along to renovate. For those of you who don’t know an acrow is a metal pole that can be used as a temporary measure while building works would be fixing it – this acrow was probably as old as me lol…. it was very old and rusty so this needed to be replaced immediately. Out with the old acrow and in with 3 more new ones.
Once this was done to support the level above – this was essential that it was done correctly otherwise the whole ground floor could have come crashing down if not. The new wooden joist (a massive thick bit of wood that is used to support and for structure of any building) and a concrete lintel. We still have one more joist, albeit a much smaller one to put in which goes across the one just done – that will be happening this weekend.
The next obstacle to overcome was the water – well is the water. After much waiting and being told wrong information we are back to square one and now need a new water connection, well connected. There is already piping in place but we are having a survey done which I also need to pay for to then decide how much works will be .
Anything between £1,000-£2,500 been told.
So I am quite pissed off as never knew would need to do this when took the property over. However I am in talks with landlord to see if anything can be done or at least maybe go dutch on the new connection (phrase for going halves, 50/50 for those who don’t know). Once the water connection has been done we can then concentrate on the downstairs toilet and basin. We badly need running water and a toilet – all the workers currently pissing in a bucket and emptying…..well I don’t know where and I don’t wanna know.
I wanted to focus on the new stairs and had the funds there for them – was told this be around £600-£700 but the stairs I wanted have now been discontinued so need to look at alternatives. Maybe will get a carpenter to build a new staircase over existing one. Not sure yet but that will come a little later now as my priorities is the water connection. I was actually tempted to throw in the towel when heard about this cost as was unexpected and by far the biggest overall cost in one go. But I have spent too much time and energy not to mention money already planning and actioning a lot of the works already.
I have a couple of tradesmen involved which have given me a decent rate but still costs. The ventilation guy, the electrician, the main builder who happens to be plasterer also but I’m very lucky because, if haven’t mentioned before ….he is my BBC husband. I also have a carpenter on board and a plumber ready in stand by. Any subs with any of those trades or maybe another trade I could benefit from then be happy to hear from you a negotiate work for time with me and or sessions online or in realtime. You scratch my back I scratch yours lol with my long talons haha..
Anyway still have a lot of work too do… next the flooring framework will be going down. Once all the framework has been complete we can then starting on the walls and actual floor oh and ceiling. We will get there in the end but has taken much longer the expected.
So to anyone who wants to support me by sending in donations towards any works, that would be greatly appreciated.
Message if you have anything to offer my project whether it be labour or labour wise or simply a money donation towards costs.
Enough said in the dungeon now – more to come real soon.
I am stronger than I have ever been before.
Anyway, with love and hate… your Mistress Xena Xxx
Hey there guys, it’s been a little while since I last updated my blog. I am going to start updating my blog a lot more regularly from now on, as I have a newly recruited PA who will help me get my blogs published.
I have been doing a lot of work down in the dungeon and it is, slowly, moving on nicely. I have had a few complications arise, but those would be sorted out. Nothing is too complicated for the Mistress.
I can’t wait to have my subs come over to the dungeon to work, which should be ready soon. I already have some helpers there in the dungeon doing manual labour, cleaning the rubbish and performing other routine, mundane, demeaning tasks that a Mistress simply should not do.
I am always looking for people skilled in trades or even subs skilled in trades to work down there at the dungeon. I am looking forward to having my space to use down there which would be available to rent only through me and would not be advertised anywhere else. I will allow only Mistresses I know personally to rent the space, as it would be my playground than being anything else. The ladies from Femocracy Global would also be allowed to use this space.
The dungeon is located in South East London but for the exact location, message Me. The dungeon is in the basement and the floor above it, the ground floor would be dedicated for photography.
Hopefully the Dungeon would be open in Jan/ Feb 2020. We would have an introductory offers for bookings for subs. So if you are a sub who would like to join me in the dungeon, message now to book a session at an introductory price.
If anyone has any ideas or suggestions then you may forward it to the Mistress. All suggestions and ideas would be heard.
As you all know I have a few sissy sites in the pipeline, the main one being https://expose-a-sissy.com We have had issues with some of the memberships there, but nothing that we can’t solve. We are having nothing but great feedback from all our members.
Any help in promoting the site, to get more signups and to spread the word would be highly appreciated, and would definitely not go unnoticed by Mistress.
I am going to try to make my site more exciting. I have neglected it for some time as I have been extremely busy, but of course nothing can make me too busy for my site and for my subs.
This week I took on two new chastity subs, one for an ongoing contract and the other one for a 3 month contract. I love to hold a sissy’s key, knowing they can’t touch their pathetic willies or pindicks without my consent, and even if I give consent they can’t touch it properly if it is caged. I love to have this control.
I love owning subs and of course have contracts to do so. I also do consensual exposure and blackmail, but it is done very seriously. I always ask for your ID and a video of you giving permission, to cover my arse. I do not care about your arse, I care about my arse. My arse is the most important thing to be cared about.
It is that time of the year you are all busy. Getting the Christmas tree decorations out, setting up the Christmas tree. Don’t forget to make sure that your Mistress, whoever that may be (hopefully me), is bought gifts. She deserves it more than any one in your life (apart from your kids).
For those of you who are interested in cuckolding, I do that with a BBC Husband who happens to be an Alpha. But as I do like to stress that he is not my Alpha, but an Alpha.
We have had quite a few cuckold bookings which we love to do but we have to book in advance as Alpha is not always available. We have to plan in advance, as My time is very valuable and I expect you to already know this.