Hey there guys, it’s been a little while since I last updated my blog. I am going to start updating my blog a lot more regularly from now on, as I have a newly recruited PA who will help me get my blogs published.
I have been doing a lot of work down in the dungeon and it is, slowly, moving on nicely. I have had a few complications arise, but those would be sorted out. Nothing is too complicated for the Mistress.
I can’t wait to have my subs come over to the dungeon to work, which should be ready soon. I already have some helpers there in the dungeon doing manual labour, cleaning the rubbish and performing other routine, mundane, demeaning tasks that a Mistress simply should not do.
I am always looking for people skilled in trades or even subs skilled in trades to work down there at the dungeon. I am looking forward to having my space to use down there which would be available to rent only through me and would not be advertised anywhere else. I will allow only Mistresses I know personally to rent the space, as it would be my playground than being anything else. The ladies from Femocracy Global would also be allowed to use this space.
The dungeon is located in South East London but for the exact location, message Me. The dungeon is in the basement and the floor above it, the ground floor would be dedicated for photography.
Hopefully the Dungeon would be open in Jan/ Feb 2020. We would have an introductory offers for bookings for subs. So if you are a sub who would like to join me in the dungeon, message now to book a session at an introductory price.
If anyone has any ideas or suggestions then you may forward it to the Mistress. All suggestions and ideas would be heard.
As you all know I have a few sissy sites in the pipeline, the main one being https://expose-a-sissy.com We have had issues with some of the memberships there, but nothing that we can’t solve. We are having nothing but great feedback from all our members.
Any help in promoting the site, to get more signups and to spread the word would be highly appreciated, and would definitely not go unnoticed by Mistress.
I am going to try to make my site more exciting. I have neglected it for some time as I have been extremely busy, but of course nothing can make me too busy for my site and for my subs.
This week I took on two new chastity subs, one for an ongoing contract and the other one for a 3 month contract. I love to hold a sissy’s key, knowing they can’t touch their pathetic willies or pindicks without my consent, and even if I give consent they can’t touch it properly if it is caged. I love to have this control.
I love owning subs and of course have contracts to do so. I also do consensual exposure and blackmail, but it is done very seriously. I always ask for your ID and a video of you giving permission, to cover my arse. I do not care about your arse, I care about my arse. My arse is the most important thing to be cared about.
It is that time of the year you are all busy. Getting the Christmas tree decorations out, setting up the Christmas tree. Don’t forget to make sure that your Mistress, whoever that may be (hopefully me), is bought gifts. She deserves it more than any one in your life (apart from your kids).
For those of you who are interested in cuckolding, I do that with a BBC Husband who happens to be an Alpha. But as I do like to stress that he is not my Alpha, but an Alpha.
We have had quite a few cuckold bookings which we love to do but we have to book in advance as Alpha is not always available. We have to plan in advance, as My time is very valuable and I expect you to already know this.
With Love & Hate
Mistress Xena x
Hello all and a very happy xmas from me…
Let me know what you been up to and how you spent it – always interesting to hear usually xmas is full of surprises, food, drink, family and loads of presents. Not to mention the odd family argument or falling out – seasons greetings and all that.
I am spending xmas with my family which will be nice taking a day or so off but you still will be able to reach me no doubt – this is just a quick one to say enjoy whatever it is your doing – cannot believe a new year – 2020 the year of clear vision is just a week or so away – this yeah has gone by far too quick – well I suppose time flies when having fun as they say.
I have had a very fun filled year, very busy which I always like to be.
The progress on the dungeon is coming along smoothly – the walls have just been started as building them up again – was he walls were in a terrible state so will take a little time – we are getting there though folks. I think the next phase should be finished by Jan so the second phase of electrics and ventilation system going in prob feb with the downstairs toilet and sink being fitted same time if not before. Have had to get w new water connection down there as no available water at present – this was time consuming enough. There will be no shower in the basement as would have made toilet area too small – but we are continuing to add a shower in upstairs with the second toilet and basin.
It’s a slow project as it’s not being done full time in fact only have been able to dedicate one day a week to renovation works at present – once again as u always like to ask any sub or slave with trade or are good with labour feel free to message me about what you can do to help. Surely if have the skills or power and are local enough (london based is local enough) then you will jump at the chance to work on dungeon before it opens AND work for me, of course.
We have also fixed a few logging in issues with https://expose-a-sissy.com nearly have 1500 members now which is fantastic especially as not done much promoting on site AND still trying to make it more user friendly.
Reading this I assume you support me and will all will continue to do so with me and my business ventures in 2020. I couldn’t have done all I have done without the amazing women I work with in and out the https://femocracyglobal.com movement. I believe in a sisterhood and that we was women when we unite we become more powerful and can conquer whatever life throws at us. I love uniting with females across the world – United we stand. If not already doing so please follow @femocracyglobal and @femocracyuk (amongst other countries femocracy twitter accounts) on twitter to support the cause.
Anyway – hope you all enjoy your holidays whatever your doing – whether it be with friends, family or meal for one – still enjoy your time and embrace the new year ahead. Time to make some new year resolutions – as long As doesn’t involve quitting the BDSM scene you have my full support..
My next post will be next year. So I suppose I will, well…. see you next year.
With love and hate
Hey there all, how’s it going?
It’s been a while since I posted I know – but makes it worth the wait all that anticipation ah.
Let’s give you some updates:
Progress of works seems to be happening even if a little slower than would have liked. The ventilation is halfway done and the electrics have just been started also. The toilet and sink will be fitted next weekend. Have finally got a Dehumidifyer in basement to get rid of any damp that may be there. The project is such a exciting one. If you have been reading up and keeping updated with the dungeon/studios progress then you would know that it is a property that been in my family for a long time and needed a major refurbish plus we opened up a floor that had never been opened up for, before now. I can’t wait to see final result as I am sure many of you can’t too.
Https://expose-a-sissy.com has been getting more and more hits. We now have over 1200 members online and it is growing by the day. This site is a site where you can upload any info and pics YOU want to upload bearing in mind if you do not want real info or pics then that’s fine also, you are in control of content. Please note any pics you may want removed please follow protocol – there is a small admin fee to do this – many want free exposure well there we are you can do it yourself. I simply do not have the time and energy to do this without a tribute hence why site was created. A sort of DIY exposure site.
We are always looking for writers and anyone whose can share their real life sissy stories whether be fun and exciting or maybe scary and worrying (there are so many different stories to tell I’m sure). Always looking for hard workers to join our team and develop within a role that may be suited to them. Please email for more info or contact via our twitter @exposesissy
I love my realtime sessions which are carried out in SW London for the time being. Once the dungeon/studio has been completed many of my sessions will be held here. I am currently offering double domme sessions online and in realtime with the wonder Goddess Mia please see her twitter @Goddess__Mia please message either myself or Goddess Mia in regards to booking our time. You won’t be disappointed. Goddess Mia lives quite close to me and we regularly meet up to abuse our subs and do some content when requested – more to come real soon.
ATM / Cashpoint meets:
Whoever is a femdom and say they are not a findom is lying – every femdom will do findom and or cashpoint meets – please note as cashpoint meet is NOT findom but many get confused. Findom is a act of sending a tribute for nothing in return – not a pic, not contact, no time, nothing…. zip… nada so don’t confuse the two. I am also offering cashpoint meets with the wonder Goddess__Mia in SW london (please note: if want us to travel then a tribute needs to be paid before hand to cover time and costs)
These sessions are always fun as does not matter where in the world you are located – I can also offer 2, 3, 4 etc dommes on a group call as I am in a group of wonderful ladies where many are on hand to use and abuse and or just have fun at a Sub’s expense.
Femocracyglobal – FSSG meetings:
Please note the meetings for London will be held in the new year at the new dungeon – stay tuned and also checking https://femocracyglobal.com to see where other meetings are being held around the world and close to you.
Please note I do allow subs, slaves, sissies, losers, betas, pay pigs etc to serve me doing my housework and also labour in my dungeon to be. Please DO NOT apply if you are not a hard worker. I always like to say make a nice tribute to do this however it is not usually same cost as a full BDSM session would be. I will ONLY allow servitude without a tribute for when I have a lot of work on and require to be done in certain timescale. I have had many subs tell me they are a good hard worker and when they have left after checking up on works done noticed that actually made works worse and more work required to sort.
I am always happy to get some feedback so feel free to message me here or on my personal email which is firstname.lastname@example.org or DM me on twitter @Mistress_Xena80 also if being a cuck has ever appealed to you then check out @sexycouple69xxxon twitter as I do bookings with my BBC hubby when requested. Please note he is an alpha but he is NOT my alpha lol women are always in control or at least that’s how it should be.
Anyway that’s all for now – will TRY not leave as long next time.
With Love & Hate – Mistress Xena x